Advice for women who are tired of being used. I receive a lot of questions from women complaining that men are using them. They ask me why do men hurt women. Why do men do this or that. This video is about the fact that you have to take responsibility for yourself. You may have the feeling that people are out to get you but most people aren’t. This AskChazzEllis video is about the fact that you have to take responsibility for yourself. Taking responsibility for yourself will help you stop making the same mistakes. You keep doing the same thing you are going to get the same result. You have to take responsibility for yourself and your actions. This video explains why you shouldn’t feel used and what you can do to rectify the situation.