5 Best Ways to Get a Man to Do What You Want

A lot of women ask me different things about men and they pretty much add up to how to get a man to do what you want. Women asked me to show them how to get guys to do all kinds of things and men get upset at me a lot of times. They are like Chazz you’re giving up the game. I am like they don't listen to me anyway.

When I do this video, it's going to help about 1% of the people who watch it. The rest of them are just going to be entertained and have something that they can disagree with. They're not going to listen so don't worry about it.
<h1><strong>How to Get a Man to Do What You Want</strong></h1>
<h2><strong>Number 1: How to Get a Man to Do What You Want: find your spot</strong></h2>
You've been dating for a while probably or you have been living for a while you probably have a pretty decent idea of who likes you and who doesn't but you want to know how to get a man to do what you want. You know what type of dudes are feeling you and what type of dudes wouldn't pee on you if you are on fire.

You have got to start finding your spot, finding the places in the world where people are attracted to you, or people like you. Get online talk to people meet new friends get involved in groups and start finding where you have kind of a niche.

I tell guys this all the time. I'm like dude every girl's not going to like you. Every girl's not going to think you're attractive but there are groups that do. So, what you need to do is find that spot or you're going to have the most success.

Once you do that then the next part is going to be a whole lot easier.
<h2><strong>Number 2: How to Get a Guy to Do What You Want: Stop judging</strong></h2>
Now most of y'all have been lost right here because I said stop judging. This is kind of your thing. Most of you like to judge. Like to go oh well he's a F-boy because he won't give me whatever I want. Oh well he likes girls with big booties that's a F-boy. Why is it that anytime a guy doesn't do what you want you start judging them?

Anytime a guy says what he likes or what he wants to get from a relationship you start judging the situation. If you stop judging the situation, you can start becoming more successful. If you stop judging and start listening and figuring out what people want it's going to be a lot easier for you to leverage that to get a man to do what you want. You can't be a salesperson and judge the client or judge the customer.

You can't be like…

<em>Really you want a minivan? </em>

<em>How would you want a minivan? </em>

<em>I'm trying to sell you a Porsche and you want to buy a minivan, lame? </em>

You're not going to sell anything. Customers are going to run away from you and every time you deal with somebody you're going to try to push them into what you want. Rather than using what they want as a means of getting what you want.

See you don't want to sell them a Porsche. You want to make Porsche money so you don't need to judge them when they want to buy a minivan. You just need to make Porsche money off of a minivan. So if the minivan costs a certain amount of money I'm sure there are a bunch of accessories you can sell. I'm sure there's a bunch of other stuff that you have that you could sell that will probably land you at Porsche money. Even if you don't get Porsche money from them you can also get referrals that will land you Porsche money eventually.

My point is you may not get it in that one moment in time off of that one situation or the way you thought you would get it. However, ultimately you will get it and that's because you didn't judge what the customer wanted because it didn't line up with what you want. You have to use what the customer wanted as an opportunity to get what you want. Now a lot of y'all may not understand this analogy and how it connects because y'all don't realize that business and relationships are the exact same thing, the same dynamics exist.

Unfortunately mommy and daddy never taught you that you didn't learn that in school and it's usually something you got to learn through life. The reality is you can't judge what people want and you can't judge what people do. You have to understand what they do.

Understand what they want and use that to get what you want. That's how you become successful at anything. Judging someone else only leaves you bitter and angry with a bunch of cute things to say on the internet or a bunch of cute things to say when you talk to your little friends while you are in your little single group but it doesn't get you any of the things that you actually want.
<h2><strong>Number 3: How to make him do what you want: Abundance Mindset </strong></h2>
Having an abundance mindset is another way to get a man to do what you want. Some of y'all are out here crying over dude that you all broke up with five years ago. You are like “I’ll never find anyone like him Ohhhh.” You can't think like that. Nobody is that important, okay.

If you think like that, how can you get someone else to do what you want them to do. When you're in a situation where you feel like if they fell off or something happened between you and them you would never find someone else. You can't say anything at that point because you're not going to have the courage to do so.

Some of y'all walk around making yourself feel better by saying “Men ain’t Shit.” “These Men ain’t nothing” “These men aren’t loyal. All the different things you're trying to tell yourself to explain the fact that you're single or you haven’t been able to find anybody. You have got it in your mind that every dude is gay. Every dude is a player. You are like, Oh I got some statistics every man is gay. Stop it. How would they even have a statistic on that. That's going to be fake. What you walked around and asked every dude in the world and they were like, “yeah.” No, stop it.

The reality is you have to come from an abundance mindset. You have got to believe that there are good men in the world. I talk to guys and they'll tell me “aw man there aren’t any good women out there. No women want to be in relationships. The first thing I do when I talk to a guy that says that is, I look at them if I'm on skype or if I'm on the phone I look at the phone, I say, “stop it don't ever say that again. Get that crap out of your mind that's a cop out, that's loser mentality.”

I used to have a boxing coach when I was young who taught me one major thing, that most people will never win because they constantly program themselves to lose. They give themselves excuses to lose, every day, “oh well the refs are cheating, aww man my arm hurt, I don't know if I can do my push-ups.” They always got something and that's what people do.

If you come from an abundance mindset that means you can get anything that's why there's a job, that's whether it is money that's whether it's health, or whatever there's plenty out there for everybody. People just aren't even trying to get it. It's like I was talking to a person that told me you know his son wanted to get in the NBA and he was like well it's a long shot. I was like, “do you realize they don't have enough talent for the NBA.”

You probably don't know that but if you do your research, there are not enough good players to go around. That's why a few good players get on the team and they just completely dominate…Golden State Warriors. Do you feel what I'm saying.  There are not enough good players to go around.

So, if you operate at the top of your game, you don't have to worry about scarcity because it doesn't affect you but if you're operating at the bottom then yeah everything affects you and now you have got to come up with excuses. So you have to think from an abundance mindset if you want to get a man to do what you want.
<h2><strong>Number 4: Way to Get a Guy to Do Whatever You Want: Keep your options open </strong></h2>
Regardless of what's going on, you don't just go “oh you're the greatest thing since sliced bread. I just met you yesterday and you're so beautiful and wonderful. You know what I'm just going to completely commit to you and hope everything goes well.” No, you have to keep people out there that you're talking to or dealing with especially if someone's not giving you what you want.

You can't sit here and just totally focus on somebody who's not doing what you want them to do, who's not doing the things that you need them to do, who's not lining it up to where they'll do what you want them to do. You have to keep your options open. A lot of y'all don't want to do that because you're like, “oh I don't want to play games.”

Really it’s I'm lazy and I don't want to put the effort in because it's hard enough to find one person let alone multiple. But if you put that effort in, if you find somebody and then you find somebody else rather than just sticking to the first person that seems to show interest, now you can get more out of each relationship because now you're picking from the person who's treating you the best and who's going to be willing to do whatever you want them to do.

The reality is, people do things because there's a certain amount of pressure on them because the other person has option. I'm not saying you have to sleep with 20 people.

I'm not saying you have to get in a relationship and then still keep cheating on the person. I'm saying if you keep your options open and say, “Look, I'm going to stay on point no matter what. I'm going to keep looking nice. I'm going to keep acting right. I'm going to keep myself in order. I'm going to keep my options open and I'm going to let you know that if you're not treating me right there's no way I'm going to stick with somebody who's not treating me right.

If you're like that then people already know, it's implied that's your options are open. You know that somebody who's not going to put up with a bunch of bull crap has their options open.
<h2><strong>Number 5 How to Get a Man to Do What You Want without Nagging: Worry about actions and not titles</strong></h2>
Another thing that stands in the way of you being able to get a man to do what you want is that some of y'all spend so much time chasing the wedding ring. Chasing some type of thing where you could say, “I'm married. I am married now!

You want to do that so bad that you put yourself in a position where any person you deal with can dangle that over your head and now they get you to do whatever they want you to do or you move on from one guy to another accomplishing nothing.

If you stop thinking about that and start thinking about the action. A person who has invested in you is going to be willing to make whatever step forward. A wedding ring really doesn't mean anything a marriage doesn't really mean anything.

I know you are like “oh yeah it does and then some of you try to go biblical with it. Okay, so they had this same system of marriage back then? No, they did it. It wasn't because you've got a wedding ring or you got a piece of paper with somebody's name on it. It's what everything meant and if you don't use that concept if you don't think about it like that, then, you're going to constantly be chasing a wedding ring and chasing a title.

Then, instead of getting what you want out of the relationship, you're going to keep giving and giving and giving to it, so that you can finally get one of those things.

If you start thinking in terms of action and saying here's what I want. Then you'll be able to get anything you want, if it's a wedding ring if it's a honeymoon if it's whatever the heck it might be whatever you want to get from the situation you'll be able to get because they're constantly investing and the more they invest the more they have to lose.

If you do these things you will be able to get a man to do what you want. If you want a more comprehensive course that will teach you how to get a guy to do what you want get the <a href="https://chazzellis.com/premium" target="_blank" rel="noopener">AskChazzEllis Masterclass</a>: How to get a man to do what you want.

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101: Mastering Getting What You Want

To get a man to do what you want, there are a few things that you can do to create an environment that will make a guy want to do what you need him to do in order for you to be happy in the relationship. Using dating down, rewards and punishment, and the no contact method you can get guys to listen to your demands.

102: Mastering Dating Down

If you decide that dating down is the best way for you to get the relationship that you want, this is the way to go about it. Learn how to use having the upper hand in the relationship to get a man to do what you want him to do so that you can get the best out of the relationship.

103: Mastering Reward and Punishment

Learn how to use rewards and punishments to make a guy feel like doing what you want is in his best interest. Get the guy to anticipate what you would like so that you don’t even have to tell him any more.

104: Mastering No Contact

When you have tried everything else, and you want the guy to get the message that you will walk away if he doesn’t give you what you want, the no contact method really gets the job done. Learn how to correctly use the no contact method and avoid some of the pitfalls.

105: If it doesn’t work

Sometimes you employ all of the best methods and it just doesn’t get the results that you want. Learn how to regroup when things don’t work and get back on track to getting what you want from a guy.

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