What to do if your girlfriend has been faking it in bed. Guy asks what to do about his girlfriend faking it in bed. His girlfriend told him that she has never really had an orgasm and she has been faking them all along. Some women fake it in bed. It is normally to her detriment not yours if she is faking it in bed. Sometimes women actually lie and say that they are faking it in bed. The fact that she tells you she has been faking it is even more concerning. This video explains why she might be telling you that she is faking it in bed.